Conflicts:
	package.json

This reverts commit f82a33f7.

This reverts commit 2b911758.

So that npm doesn't try to automatically compile and use it on an
`npm install` of the tarball.

Conflicts:
	wscript

Conflicts:

	src/database.cc

No idea really if this helps anything...

This is how node does it so let's stay consistent.

fixup wscript to ensure we link to all libraries needed for static sqlite3 internal build - closes #45

they still contain absolute paths